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New filter features – date in confidence and safety!

We’ve recently added the ability for members to filter their contact preferences. Whilst allowing all members to select who they wanted to hear from, this hugely improved the experience for female members.
Women are renowned for being inundated on dating sites and so the ability for our women members to select the criteria of who they’d [...]

Free Messaging this Sunday! Unlimited all day long

As a special treat we’d like to offer you the chance to send and read messages on Rossendate this coming Sunday COMPLETELY FREE. To be able to read and reply to the messages in your Inbox, as well as send new ones to the lovely ladies you see on Rossendate – dating in Rossendale, [...]

Upgrade and get a whole month for a £

Did you know that it has been more than three months since you first registered as a Member of Rossendate? Doesn’t time fly! And as yet you’ve not upgraded your account to enjoy all the extras that are available to Full Members.
Well, here at Rossendate we don’t like to think of anyone being left out, [...]

Would you still marry your spouse if you knew then what you know now?

To all the married couples, ten years or more: 1. If you can go back in time knowing what you know now about your spouse, would you still marry him or her? 2. If you won a large jackpot lottery of millions, would you stay with your spouse?

What did he mean? Is he just looking for more work, or does he want to see me personally?

Hi, I am in need of some advice from a male perspective! I wont bore everyone with a long story so basically I met this guy the other day after he came round to my house to carry out some work. From the moment I opened the door I thought “wow”! We chatted for a while and he

The Christmas Woes

My boyfriend, Joe, and I have been together since late August. He is really sweet, caring, etc. However with Christmas coming up he has been really stressed with Work, Partys, Cooking, Family, Presents, etc. Lately he has been showing it more than usual, snapping mostly, or

I smelled my sisters feet when I was younger, am I normal?

(MOD NOTE: TITLE IS ORIGINAL POSTERS)Sexual thoughts and family Okay so I’m 17 and for about a year ive had “intrusive thoughts” where i picture sexual acts with basicly everyone i meet, even family members. I’m quite disgusted with myself and was sickened, but i found reli

Paranoid about being pregnant? We didn’t use a condom.

hi, me and my man were having sex a few weeks ago and he came in me, i was due for my period on saturday, its now monday and still no period, im also stressing a lil bit, so that may be causing it, but i dont. i do feela lil bit tired, and i have been peeing alot, but that

Should I revisit my marriage or move on with the new boyfriend?

I’m a divorced mother of three and have had a long distance relationship with a wonderful man for the last three years. My children are 11,9 and 5 and have had limited contact with my boyfriend but get along very well with him. It’s getting to the point where we’re looking at

Should I choose my potential husband or the name of a school?

My ex-boyfriend and I were together for two years and we currently go to separate colleges, 6.5 hours away from each other. It’s been a year since we broke up and I’m trying as it is to get out of this city. He’s successfully done that because he actually paid attention in high


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